A Problem No One Talks About

Why Brilliant Women Get Undermined, Dismissed, or Burned Out…
and What It Really Takes to Lead Without Losing Your Soul

You're not imagining it.

And you’re not broken.

But you are caught in something much deeper than mindset.

“I'm doing more, with less effort, in a way that feels right for me.”

Nicola B, PhD. Research Team Head & Lecturer

Soul-Level Coaching & Healing for Executive Women

For brilliant, principled women who were born to lead—but learned to shrink.

ISLAND A: A Life That Looks Good (But Feels All Wrong)

You're brilliant. Accomplished. Respected (sort of…

You’re always called when things go sideways—but not when it’s time to give credit.

You’ve ticked all the boxes. Climbed the ladder. Played by the rules.

You’ve got the degrees. The reputation. The receipts.

And yet…
You’re exhausted.
Undervalued.
Quietly unraveling under all the polish and poise.

You’ve done everything right.
The schools. Internships. Late nights and extra credit.

You followed the script… and lost yourself in the process.

You're “successful”, but it doesn’t feel like it.

You wonder:

“Why do I still have to prove myself in rooms I helped build?”
“Why do I attract bosses and systems that suppress me?”
“Why does it still feel like too much or not enough—no matter what I do?”

You see the dysfunction.
Hold the line.
Carry the weight while others — louder, less ethical — rise.

The scariest part?
You’re starting to suspect: this might be as good as it gets.

It’s not your ambition that’s the problem.
It’s the field you’re playing in—and the invisible roots that still bind your power.

[Diagram: The Four Islands Pathway]

  • Island A: The life they told you to want

  • Island B: The safer-sounding “fix” that doesn’t actually work

  • Island C: What your soul came for

  • Island Z: What happens if you don’t claim it

ISLAND B: The ‘Safe’ Fix That Keeps You Stuck

When you look for answers, you get nonsense in a pantsuit:

“Be more confident.”
“Lean in.”
“Ask for more.”
“Take up space.”

Cute. But useless.

Here’s what these “empowerment hacks” don’t see:

* What if your soul doesn’t want to play the game better, because it knows the game is rigged?

* What if your leadership style isn’t flawed or broken… what if it’s remembering?

* And what if your deepest resistance isn’t self-sabotage, but sacred hesitation?

If the issue was mindset, you’d have solved it already.

Because you’ve done the therapy.
You’ve read the books.
You’ve tried journaling, and affirmations, and manifestation.

And yet—here you are.
Still slamming into the same invisible walls.

The Real Problem Isn’t Confidence. It’s the Field You’re In.

You’re not stuck because you’re weak… insecure… not "assertive" enough.

You’re entangled… trapped in:

  • Toxic ‘mimic patterns’ that reward pretense over truth

  • Energetic contracts that confuse power with harm

  • Soul-level memories of times where power led to punishment, betrayal, or loss

These aren’t metaphors.
They’re real energetic architectures—inherited, absorbed, or karmically carried.

They whisper things like:

“If I shine, I’ll be punished.”
“If I lead, I’ll be left behind.”
“If I have power, I’ll hurt someone.”

And until those codes are cleared, you’ll repeat the same pattern (just in fancier clothes.)

ISLAND C: The Power Your Soul Remembers

You’re not here to survive power… to chase power… or hide from it…
You’re here to transform it.

This isn’t about winning the old game.
It’s about leaving the field… and creating a new one.

On Island C, you:

  • Break the spells that make you play small, say sorry, or stay silent

  • Stop carrying other people’s chaos, shame, or karma

  • Reclaim your soul’s original authority—without fear of punishment or exile

  • Lead from presence, not performance

This is the frequency of clean power.
This is what your soul’s been waiting for.

ISLAND Z: What Happens If You Don’t Shift

Most powerful women don’t burn out because they’re weak.

They burn out because they’re carrying everyone else’s weight…
while questioning their own right to exist in the room.

If you don’t heal your relationship with power:

  • You’ll keep attracting saboteurs, users, and spiritual narcissists

  • You’ll keep dimming your light (while calling it strategy)

  • You’ll keep grieving the life you could’ve had, while performing the one you’re in

What’s worse?

The people who shouldn’t have power will keep taking more of it.

If ethical, sensitive, visionary women stay small…
the future gets built by those who lead from ego and greed, not soul.

This isn’t just your journey.

It’s a pivot point for the planet.

Real Answers: Field Repair. Soul Alignment. Power Retrieval.

This isn’t therapy.
This isn’t ‘mindset’ coaching.
And it sure as hell isn’t shadow work in a pantsuit.

This is energetic soul retrieval for modern leadership.
Held in a sacred, high-frequency space that does what your “high-performance” programs can’t.

Here’s how we do it:

Sanctuary Healing
Clear toxic ‘mimic fields’, inherited vows, stored trauma

Circles Intuition Tool
Rebuild your inner compass and stop outsourcing truth

The Soul Compass Journey
Anchor the rhythm of your soul’s leadership across a year

Galadriel Rising
Reclaim the sovereign field of clean, ethical power

When you're ready for the deepest return:

Angelic Retrieval
Reclaim your soul’s original authority and divine essence, beyond trauma, timelines, doubt.

✦ Some of this might sound… out there.
“Mimic fields” or “energetic soul retrieval” aren’t your average boardroom lingo.
No worries, they’re all explained here →
The Journey Back to Power

What Clients Find…

Andrew Wayfinder Hryniewicz, HG Dip (Dist.)
Author, Psychotherapist, Shamanic Healer & Teacher

I See You. I Get It. I’ve Been There.

Hi, I’m Andrew Wayfinder

I was ‘supposed’ to be an investment banker.
But in my first accounting class, my soul said “No”.

After college, I won a grant to study in Greece.
One night, lying in an olive grove under the Milky Way, I had a vision that cracked me open.

I heard a voice say,

“I’m alone… and I’m going to die.”

That moment sent me down a lifelong path… not chasing ‘success’, but remembering what my soul is here for.

I became a psychotherapist. A shamanic healer. A coach. A cartographer of hidden landscapes.

But more than anything… I became a guide for those who are tangled.

Not to save them.
But to help them remember they never needed saving.

[Read My Full Story]

My Role: The Boat, The Mirror, The Disruptor

I’m not here to fix you. I’m here to disrupt what’s not you.

I’m what some call a terminal node*—an energetic disruptor.

Toxic mimic structures and old karmic loops fail in my presence.
Because my field doesn’t carry the signature of the wound.

I walk with those who want to:

  • Drop the performance

  • Collapse the spell

  • And reclaim the leadership their soul remembers

This isn’t healing.
This is field architecture repair*.

And it’s time.

You ready?

Let’s walk.

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You’re not here to play small…

You were never meant to shrink to fit.
Or burn out just to belong.

You’re here to change the game —
not play it better.

You’re not chasing domination.
Or recognition for its own sake.

You want power that restores,
not punishes.
That leads without manipulation.
That aligns with the integrity of your soul.

And deep down, your soul already knows:
… why you’re here.
…what you’re here to change.
… and the future you came to help midwife into being.

You don’t need to hustle harder.
You don’t need to “fix” yourself.
You definitely don’t need another performance strategy dressed up as empowerment.

You just need to remember the leader your soul already knows how to be.

Because the truth is…

You’re not here to play small.
You’re here to lead big — in a way that heals.

Not sure where to start?

🔹 Turf War Shut-Down

Hold your ground. And your place.

A powerful script + mindset reset to stop BS politics at work.

Best if you’re:

- Curious and want a pressure-free first step

- Looking for a small, effective shift

🔹 Self-Guided Healing

Heal the pain under the patterns.

A self-paced tool to clear emotions from past hurts, shocks or betrayals.

Best if you’re:

- Ready for deep release without the spotlight

- Wanting a fast and simple tool

🔹 Private Soul Path Call

Come ready. Leave with direction.

A sacred, intuitive 1:1 conversation to map your next steps.

Best if you’re:

- Done hiding. Ready to move.

- Looking for clarity, confirmation, or guidance

Whatever path you choose — I’ll meet you there.